Soooooo....it's been awhile huh?!?! Let's just say....I've been quiet busy! :) But all in a good way! Besides getting New Year's out of the way, keeping up with Tres, who will be turning 3 in a week and has the energy of about 5 three year olds, still working on my projects, reading and preparing for Roy to come home for a month, I also started working nights again. So this meant (means) getting Tres use to having mommy gone at bedtime. When I made the decision to go back to work, I was excited to go back to a job that I loved before! Then came the thoughts of leaving Tres. This is the first time I have ever left Tres (besides the fun he has staying the night at his uncle's house) and I struggled with this for almost a month. When it came down to the week for me to go to work, I cried almost all week. I was just so worried about Tres not doing well, about him feeling abandoned, about him thinking I was going to be just like daddy and not come home for a long time.
BUT, come the first night, he gave me the "can I go, can I go", my mom got him preoccupied and off to work I went. I had been preparing him for a couple weeks that he would be staying with Grammie and Grandpa and that Grammie would be helping him go to bed at night and then when he woke up, Mommy would be right next to him. Then the next night....."bye mama, see you 'yater'". And while that made me feel good knowing that he was ok with me leaving and that he knew I would come back, I thought it would take just a little more time to be ok with it! :) But I am sooooo happy that he is doing well! I am so thankful that we have my parents looking after him. I never once was worried about the care he was in, but most about his feelings. I just wanted to do what was best for Tres.
Other than that, we are now preparing for Tres' 3rd birthday. It will be the first birthday Roy has been able to spend with Tres since he was born. So, while we are not having a big birthday party for him ON his birthday, we will be spending a few days in Disneyland! :)
And with all that....I want to Thank everyone for still reading....for leaving comments and for understanding my reasoning for not being able to stop by your blogs more often! I hope all of you are doing well and as soon as I get into a groove, I will be able to to comment a lot more on your blogs! Until then, know I am thinking of you all and will be updating again soon! Much love to you all!
BUT, come the first night, he gave me the "can I go, can I go", my mom got him preoccupied and off to work I went. I had been preparing him for a couple weeks that he would be staying with Grammie and Grandpa and that Grammie would be helping him go to bed at night and then when he woke up, Mommy would be right next to him. Then the next night....."bye mama, see you 'yater'". And while that made me feel good knowing that he was ok with me leaving and that he knew I would come back, I thought it would take just a little more time to be ok with it! :) But I am sooooo happy that he is doing well! I am so thankful that we have my parents looking after him. I never once was worried about the care he was in, but most about his feelings. I just wanted to do what was best for Tres.
Other than that, we are now preparing for Tres' 3rd birthday. It will be the first birthday Roy has been able to spend with Tres since he was born. So, while we are not having a big birthday party for him ON his birthday, we will be spending a few days in Disneyland! :)
And with all that....I want to Thank everyone for still reading....for leaving comments and for understanding my reasoning for not being able to stop by your blogs more often! I hope all of you are doing well and as soon as I get into a groove, I will be able to to comment a lot more on your blogs! Until then, know I am thinking of you all and will be updating again soon! Much love to you all!












